Mandy went to the midwife on Tuesday afternoon and was dilated to a 4 almost a 5, so her midwife, Sherri, gave her a little nudge. When I got home from work, we went and walked around the mall, voted, shared a delicious Cinnabon (because that's how we celebrate momentous occasions), walked up to the church and tried all sorts of other things to help contractions along. Mandy called Sherri around midnight saying the contractions were getting more consistent. That's when the party started.
Mandy's parents came over, our sister in law Danette, Sherri (the midwife), Tiffany (her assistant) and Shanna (the student midwife). There was great conversation and distraction for Mandy as she was having the contractions. The baby's head was kinked a little bit so he wasn't descending into the birth canal very easily. When Mandy would have a contraction, she would lift her belly up to try and get him in the right position. After some more walking around, she was checked again and was dilated to a 7. Her water was broken and we were off to the races.
We borrowed a birthing tub/pool from Mandy's sister Sammy to have a water birth. 55 minutes after Mandy's water was broken, our new boy was born.
He cried 2 times and then fell asleep. Mandy stayed in the pool for a little bit holding him. It was very relaxing. I remember in the hospital they whisked the others away as soon as the cord was cut. The midwives were very accommodating and let Mandy do things when she was ready.
We are so excited to have Daniel in our family and know that it's only 4 under 4 until the end of July. Mandy is doing well and said her nether regions have never felt so good postpartum. She was very worried about tearing. While she tore a tiny bit, she didn't need stitches. For that very reason, Mandy feels the home birth was a success. I'm now a believer in home births. The kids were asleep the whole time and I got to sleep in my own bed instead of the hospitals pull out mattress. We had more freedom to walk around and have the birth the way Mandy wanted. We have truly been blessed.
Jason